Sunday, July 21, 2019

The ONE question you can NEVER stop asking!




If you ever read my blog, you know how frustrated I get for my clients when they describe far too often the dumpster fire that is their work environment. From toxic bosses to hyper competitive co-workers it seems to never end. This always has me thinking out loud that maybe if we constantly asked ourselves one key question, we can turn this around.

Prior to my more recent roles, I worked for a major university in South Florida. As a senior member of the leadership team, when faced with a difficult decision or an “undefined problem:” with no clear answer (a nod there to author Ron Heifetz) my supervisor would always ask us, “what is in the best interest of the student?” That very simple but transformative question was our magnetic north. It became the NEXUS of ultimate decision making. It mirrored the wisdom of author and faculty member John Schuh who would encourage student affairs professionals to always look out for the interest of the student because there would always be someone who would look after the interest of the institution. To this day I try to approach my work from this very principle. Whether it be an executive MBA student or a freshman, liberal arts major, we must always be asking what is in their (not mine or our) best interest!

As leaders, I encourage us to start asking this very question. When faced with a decision, an opportunity, a challenge, or a pivot, before ANY answer is offered, start with this question - What is in the best interest of _____________?
-       The student
-       The employees
-       The patient
-       The client
-       The customer
-       The constituent
-       The community

I know this is going to sound harsh but as every leadership or history book I ever read instructs us, the moment you stop asking that question, is the second you are no longer relevant as a business, school, hospital, government, agency, or organization. It may live on life-support for a while, but it will eventually entropy.

You might as well shut it down right then and there. You are though being of value. Close the door, turn out the lights and go do something where you are not going to bother anybody!

So why do we hesitate to ask this very basic question?

Cost – maybe the leader or the organization just is unwilling to pay the cost of the answer. Keep in mind the cost can but does not always means financial costs. It could mean the cost of our reputation, our pride, our status, our position, or our ranking in the marketplace.

Change – when we ask this critical question, the answer often requires us to change direction, change strategy, change our assumptions, change our beliefs, or change how we treat those in our charge.

Consciousness – it is hard thing to face that maybe we are not as good as we think we are as leaders and organizations. Often, we think we know what is best for others but unless we are constantly testing that “theory in use” we can quickly operate under old and/or incorrect information. It has become obvious to me that very few senior leaders at the highest levels of business, government, education, etc. have the moral and emotional bandwidth to face and then act upon an unpleasant reality. Ironically, it is those very leaders who we most want to follow!

Do me and, more importantly, you and your stakeholders a favor this week or the next time you find yourself around a conference table wrestling with a tough issue. Ask out loud, “what is in the best interest of _________________” Sure, you may get some blank stares but maybe, just maybe, you will open up an incredibly powerful conversation that will have important positive impacts.

As always if I can help you and the people you associate with Get Better, Be Ready and LEAD OUT LOUD, I invite you to contact me.

Yours in leadership,

Bill Faulkner
Independent Coach, Speaker, and Trainer with the John Maxwell Team TM

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