Sunday, March 24, 2019

Talent or Character: A Career Paradox?



“Talent get you in the door, but character keeps you in the room!” Pretty wise words by leadership expert John Maxwell. But in the fast-paced world of the new digital economy, what wins? In my work with established professionals and leaders, I often think out loud about what matters most to them and their employers.  

A recent whitepaper by the Business Higher Education Forum reveals startling trends and facts about the types of jobs that are emerging in the digital economy and the skill-sets that will be in demand. The researchers discovered that, yes, technical Digital Building Block skills such as managing and analyzing data, programming, and cyber security will be in high demand. But there are two other skill areas will be critical: Business Enabling skills such as project management, digital design, and other business processes will be needed to operationalize digital solutions. Leadership skills which the researchers call soft or “human” skills focus on communication, critical thinking, collaboration, analytical skills and creativity are also incredibly important. Trust me, there is nothing soft about solid leadership!

The researchers went on to point out that individuals that possess at least some baseline competencies in all three areas even though they may excel in two enjoy higher job mobility as well as higher earning potential. Further, such balanced individuals are incredible competitive and much sought after for more senior, C-Suite roles. Finally, the sheer number of job opportunities that require these three areas will be staggering!

Both Digital Building Blocks and Business Enabling skills focus on talent, however, Leadership skills are solidly grounded in character. In David Brooks compelling book, The Road to Character, he contends that character is the foundation for any success in life. Those without it eventually become victim to their lack of virtue and self-discipline. Character, however, can be developed and grown which is the good news. The bad news is that it takes a lot of work.

So now that I have made the case of for the need of both talent and character, how do we demonstrate to our teams or even future employers that we have both?

Focus on Self AND Others
Many leadership programs these days involve a “Working on Self” focus through assessments, mindfulness, and other interventions. Now you may be thinking “What’s wrong with that?” On balance nothing as long as there IS a balance of using those tools to add value to others! Leadership in its purest sense is OTHER directed though not always other oriented. You can and should do the important internal work but eventually you have to lead on, for, or toward something involving some ones!

Focus on what’s Relevant versus What’s Recent
Far too often we do not realize our own transferrable skills. In fact, the researchers from the report above state that the majority of job applicants do not list the skills they have in the three domains even though they clearly have them or used them at one time. The biggest mistake that applicants (and many hiring managers) make is deciding that earlier experience is not valid experience. Nothing can be further from the truth especially in light of the fact that many of the jobs we had earlier in our careers required us to be the “doers” of many of the processes captured in these domains.

Focus on the Future
You can always learn new techniques or skills through a course or a certification program. There are many on-the-job opportunities to learn the digital building blocks needed to thrive in the ever-evolving economy. There are many free on-line courses and other continuing education opportunities available that are very cost effective. While you are spinning up the technical skills continue to build the Character Muscles as author Jim Loehr calls them. Character comes from doing the hard things, the inconvenient things, or the unpopular things NOW so that your reputation for the future is impeccable.  

So back to the original question, does talent trump character? You certainly need both but think about how you would prefer the people working with or for you? What are you willing to train someone on and how do you want them to come already “factory equipped”? I would wager you are happy to train team members on the technical skills but you would expect them to already have a strong moral and character center. 

David Brooks goes on to share that as human beings we are much like “crooked timber” and it should be our primary ambition to smooth out the rough spots and wood knots. After that, everything is gravy!

As always if I can help you and the people you associate with Get Better, Be Ready and LEAD OUT LOUD, I invite you to contact me.

Yours in leadership,

Bill Faulkner
Independent Coach, Speaker, and Trainer with the John Maxwell Team TM

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Sunday, March 10, 2019

Believe in Yourself by Balancing the Ledger!


Believe in Yourself by Balancing the Ledger!

Time for a leadership confessional. Whether we want to admit it or not, even the most gifted and talented professionals struggle with confidence and belief in themselves from time to time. This happens when we are in a new role, tasked with an unfamiliar project, or experience some sort of unexpected life change. This impacts us. It starts to create doubt and erode confidence. Modern management and leadership literature often refers to this as the “imposter syndrome” where we do not feel able and/or worthy of our leadership roles.

With that in mind, I have been thinking out loud about confidence and its origins for quite some time. Adult Development theorist Arthur Chickering states that confidence is critical in life success, but I would argue the construct of confidence is a little understood component of human potential. I have become more and more convinced, confidence is the impact multiplier since confidence bridges the gap between what one can do (potential) and what one will do (performance). With that in mind, here is my formula for confidence:
Progressive Accomplishment + Belief in Self + Worthiness = Confidence

I outlined this in one of my earlier posts. Progressive Accomplishment is the intellectual, physical, and emotional progress we make each day. We start with small wins and successes that we build upon to create larger wins and successes. The talent development industry calls that “successive approximation”. But we have to track this!

Belief in Self is foundational and I have often written about this. Confident people have a healthy self-appreciation for what they can do and what they have the potential to do. But we have to practice this!

Worthiness (vs deservedness) reinforces to a leader they are worthy of where they are and what they are doing. It is the belief that you are just as worthy as anyone else to have that position or role. But we have to believe this!

So how do we DO this? How can we better track, practice, and believe in our leadership abilities? I would suggest we Balance the Ledger of what we perceive to be our leadership debits with accurate credits! If you are like me, we are our own worse critics. In this world of social media trolling, advertisers that create unrealistic images and lifestyles, and increased social isolation from each other, it is no wonder why we feel we are just a bunch of imposters walking around the planet! 

Now listen to me, I am not suggesting an unrealistic, everyone gets a trophy at Camp Self-Esteem kind of approach. What I am suggesting is that yes, there are leadership qualities and skills we need to develop BUT that is only half the ledger! If we only focus on the loss side of things we are not getting an accurate accounting of who we really are and what we are capable of. We need to identify the credits.

I would like you to try a little experiment. Create a list of your leadership debits and credits. I know you know your liabilities all too well since you probably remind yourself of them on a daily basis! However, I want you to also identify your assets. Furthermore, since it is just solid business practice to have more profit than loss for YouInc., for every ONE liability you list, I want you to identify TWO assets! That’s just good business.
  • For every area to develop list two strengths
  • For every defeat list two victories
  • For every step back you made list two steps forward you accomplished
  • For every deadline you missed list two where you exceeded expectations
  • For every personal loss list two instances where you added value to others
  • For every past regret list two aspirations for the future

I will be the first to admit I am a rampant serial encourager! I just want to help people overcome self-doubt. You see when you doubt yourself, you are committing a crime against yourself because self-doubt robs you of your passion, progress, and potential! Life is challenging enough as it is, no sense in you being your own under the bus thrower! Balance the ledger and make sure what you are telling yourself is not just half the narrative but the complete story!

As always if I can help you and the people you associate with Get Better, Be Ready and LEAD OUT LOUD, I invite you to contact me.

Yours in leadership,

Bill Faulkner
Independent Coach, Speaker, and Trainer with the John Maxwell Team TM

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Sunday, March 3, 2019

To be a Great Leader, You Don’t Have to be Great!


To be a Great Leader, You Don’t Have to be Great!

Hockey legend Wayne Gretsky or basketball icon Michael Jordan. These are two individuals synonymous with greatness in sports and life. But can I share a secret with you? They did not start out great! By his own admission, Gretsky knew he was smaller and slower than his opponents on the ice. Michael Jordan did not make his highschool basketball team the first time he tried out. In the end, however, both men became great which has me thinking out loud that as leaders, we don’t have to be great to eventually become great leaders!

During some recent travels, I was scrolling through some in-flight movie options and happened upon a short documentary called In Search of Greatness directed by Gabe Polsky. Gabe and his contributors set out to highlight what makes world-class athletes that way. What they discovered was surprising. They determined that the top-tier professional athletes we admire today were often not the biggest, smartest, fastest, or even the most talented compared to their peers at the start of their careers. Instead, they tapped into something different to make up for what many would consider their athletic deficiencies. Even more encouraging, the resources they tapped into were not physical but rather emotional or attitudinal.

That is incredibly empowering for us wanting to be better leaders because the resources they drew upon were purely internal as opposed to physical, financial, or positional. Here are just a few of those resources that I know resonates with any of us wanting to be a better leader.

No Formulas – these world-class athletes broke molds and many of the sport conventions of their day. As leaders, we need to understand that we have to create our own unique formulas for success. Like superstar athletes, we all need to master the fundamentals of integrity, interpersonal concern, organization, and intent but the best leaders improvise to meet the needs of their contexts versus following a lock-step management development scheme.

Play With Talent – the best athletes played and experimented with their talents versus structured them. They experiment and found ways to win that fit their strengths and abilities versus the use of any imposed strategy. The same goes for leaders. We need to not impose or force our strategies on others, rather adopt to our followers and what they bring to the situation.

Focus – one thing world-class athletes do have in common is their incredible mental and emotional focus. Actor Will Smith once stated in an interview that he would “die on the treadmill”! He went on to say what he meant by that was there are others who have more acting talent or stronger screen presence, but no one will ever out work him! If we want to improve as leaders, we need to have the same focus or leadership ethos. We need to view problems, situations, and opportunities through a leadership lens. We need to not only focus on our own development but that of others. We need to consume leadership learning and experiences (i.e. master the fundamentals) so that we can then use these skills and attitudes to improvise to the situations we encounter.

Mentors – finally, to a person from the William’s sisters to Jerry Rice to soccer great, Pele, all owe their success to the mentors they have had in their lives. People who saw their unconventional talents and allowed it to manifest versus put then in a mold. They customized their coaching to the player as opposed to expecting the opposite. We need the same as leaders. First, we need to mentor others in the same way – not to lead as we do but to lead in a way that that allows them to be and do their best. We also need to be mentored. For many years, leadership expert and author John Maxwell would meet regularly with legendary UCLA basketball coach, John Wooden. John never played for Coach Wooden but he became so inspired by his knowledge and approach to life that he would spend time just talking and learning from him.

Here’s the thing. History and the movies love to portray leaders as big as life individuals. The fact is the best did not start out that way. Lincoln came from very humble beginnings. Theodore Roosevelt was often ill and weak as a child. What that means for those of us wanting to be great leaders is that no one is born a great leader, we become that way and how we do that can be informed from the points above.

Recently, a client asked me how to incorporate all the leadership content they were consuming to actually change the way they lead. Whereas not the only way, here is my simple process:

  1. Prioritize – what do you and your team need NOW? Leadership authors and trainers can provide you with a laundry list of skills, attributes, behaviors, etc. that leaders should have. Create a list that makes sense to you but rank order them in terms of importance, impact, etc. and pick no more than two at a time to work on.
  2. Practice – Once you have picked on or two competencies to develop. Focus ONLY on those two to intentionally develop and grow for 30 days.
  3. Reflect – reflect on what you are learning and how people, processes, and situations have IMPROVED due to your focus on these priorities.
  4. Incorporate – once you have mastered or at least consistently include a new leadership approach into your behaviors, attitudes, and habits they will become incorporated into your leadership ethos. You will more naturally draw upon them versus having to consciously think about how you will do so.
  5. Repeat – once you have mastered and incorporated these first two competencies, work down your list to the next two and repeat the process.


As you can start to gather, no one gets great at anything by accident. From shots on goal to leading teams, you must draw upon a variety of internal resources but do it your way and in a way that works for you. There is a lot of great leadership content out there but avoid the “theory of the month club” mentality. Incorporate what you like or works best for you and use that to create a stable and effective leadership approach. Trust me, you do not need to discard all that you have learned and gained just because someone introduces a new paradigm. Just take the best and leave the rest.

You do not have to be great to be a great leader, just great at it!

As always if I can help you and the people you associate with Get Better, Be Ready and LEAD OUT LOUD, I invite you to contact me.

Yours in leadership,

Bill Faulkner
Independent Coach, Speaker, and Trainer with the John Maxwell Team TM

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