Leadership and personal development
expert John Maxwell shares that “the SOUL of your leadership lies in your
values.” I would extend that and propose the PRICE of your leadership is acting
on those values in a consistent, uncompromising manner!
I was thinking out loud
that the character of our nation has moved from one of moral focus to moral
relativism. No one wants to be held accountable any more. From professional
athletes to reality TV stars, there is no moral center. In fact I saw a great
meme the other day that stated: When Miley Cyrus gets up on stage, half naked,
and licks a hammer, she calls it “art” or “music”. When I do it, I get asked to
leave the Home Depot! (To be clear I have never done this, just stating an
example . . . let’s don’t start that
rumor!). So moving quickly along, the reason for this lack of moral clarity is
that often we are not clear on what our values REALLY are.
Do a quick activity for me. List you
top 3 Values. Now ask yourself the following questions:
1. What would your life be like if you
did not have them?
2. What would your relationships be
like?
3. How would you conduct yourself
professionally?
I
would bet most of you would respond that life without these values would be
shallow, meaningless, full of drama, and disappointment. You would be right. So
let me ask you one more question.
4. If we know of such outcomes,
why do we sometimes act in a way that is antithetical to the values we
say we hold so dear? (and I include myself in that question!!)
The
point is not to guilt anyone, the point is to raise our awareness. The PRICE of
courageous leadership is to both KNOW and ACT upon our values everyday, all the
time. This is not easy. In fact look at your top 3 value list again.
Are you willing to be INCONVENIENCED for these values?Are willing to be INTERRUPTED for these values?What will you SACRIFICE for these values?Are you willing to PAY the ultimate PRICE for what you believe and hold dear as the best of us have done?
It
all starts with what you believe is most important because when leaders act
upon their values, it draws people to them. I believe people genuinely want to
follow leaders of integrity. It’s you they are waiting for!
As always, if I can
help you and the people you associate with Get Better, Be
Ready and LEAD OUT LOUD, I would invite you to visit my website below and see
if any of the training or coaching experiences I offer can provide an impact!
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organization! Such an initiative would be critical in order to add value to
your organization!
Yours in Leadership,
Bill Faulkner
Co-Founder – Out Loud
Strategies
Independent Coach,
Speaker, and Trainer with the John Maxwell Team TM
Email = bill@outloudinc.com
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