The media is full of
stories of successful performers, athletes, and entrepreneurs but are failures as
people. they get in legal troubles, have broken relationships, and a host of other issues. This always gets me thinking out loud about how certain individuals can
reach such fame and fortune in their fields of endeavor but fail so miserably
in terms of how they carry themselves.
In his book, The Only Way
to Win, Jim Loehr whose firm works with the world's top athletes and executives, makes the case that the most successful people have BOTH!.
Essentially he states that PERFORMANCE character strengths determine how we
relate and view OURSELVES. MORAL character strengths determine how we relate to
and view OTHERS.
Performance Character
Strengths include:
- Determination
- Concentration
- Resilience
- Competitiveness
- Ambition
- Mental Toughness
Moral Character Strengths
include:
- Care for other people
- Honesty
- Integrity
- Fairness
- Generosity
- Respect
So now that you have an
idea of the difference between the two, here is a powerful activity that you can complete
to see where you fall on this spectrum:
- List your TOP 6 Character Strengths (the ones that receive the most attention or energy)
- Next RANK them from 1 – 6 with 1 being the most important.
- Now REVIEW your lists, which category do you draw the most from – MORAL or PERFORMANCE?
The point is you need BOTH performance and moral strengths to succeed - without a doubt. But as author and
leadership expert John Maxwell states, “TALENT gets you in the door but
CHARACTER keeps you in the room.” I put so much emphasis on this topic because
your followers will take their cues from you. What happens in the C-Suite will
make its way to the Mailroom! Culture ALWAYS starts at the top and it IS
CONTAGEOUS!
As
always if I can help you and
the people you associate with Get Better, Be Ready and LEAD OUT LOUD, I would
invite you to email me or to visit my website below and see if any of the
training or coaching experiences I offer can provide an impact! Also, as a
bonus, if you go to my Out Loud Strategies website (www.outloudinc.com) and enter your
contact information, I will send you a FREE guide to establishing a mentoring
initiative program in your organization! Such an initiative would be critical
in order to add value to your organization!
Yours in Leadership,
Bill Faulkner
Principal Consultant –
Out Loud Strategies
Independent Coach,
Speaker, and Trainer with the John Maxwell Team TM
Email = bill@outloudinc.com
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